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Arming Yourself Against “I’m Just Saying,” and Other Annoying Phrases

Dr. Lynn Margolies
by Dr. Lynn Margolies
Annoyed by phrases like "I'm just saying"? Learn why people use them, their hidden meanings, and practical ways to respond confidently.
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Dr. Lynn Margolies

by Dr. Lynn Margolies

Dr. Lynn Margolies is a Ph.D. licensed experienced psychologist. She was trained at McLean Hospital, a Harvard teaching hospital, and was a Harvard Medical School Instructor and Fellow. Read Bio

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