Ph.D. Psychologist
Newton, MA
Articles on Misguided Efforts that Impede Progress
by Dr. Lynn Margolies
The characters from the vignettes in Dr. Margolies’ articles are fictitious and designed to be relatable to many people and common themes. They are not based on any patient’s individual situation or disclosure but were derived from a composite of people and events for the purpose of representing real-life situations and psychological dilemmas. Terms of Use.
The Hidden Dynamics of Defiance and How to Disarm It
How to avoid psychological traps with people who repeat the same solvable issue.
The Psychology of Narcissism Versus Healthy Self-Esteem
Too much praise can nurture imposters and narcissists.
Transforming Struggles With Kids Into Successes: Simple Strategies for Parenting
The challenge of getting certain kids (for example, kids who are distracted, hyperactive, rebellious, cranky) to follow routines and guidelines can test any parent’s patience. The flavor of the struggle varies with age and topic, but begins when toddlers first discover autonomy and revel in saying “no,” and this trend can persist throughout adolescence.
What Teens Are Doing Online (and Don’t Tell Their Parents)
Why do teens watch porn? How it impacts their views on sex, consent, and relationships—and what parents can do to effectively address these issues.
When Does Repentance Fail to Lead to Improved Behavior?
Dr. Margolies’ Commentary on A New York Times Column: The Raw Power of Repentance (French, July 28th 2025)