Assertiveness & BoundariesBreaking Self-Defeating PatternsInterpersonal BoundariesOvercoming Shame & GuiltSetting Limits With Manipulative PeopleShame, Guilt, & Out of Control Behavior

The Psychology of the Guilt-Tripper

Dr. Lynn Margolies
by Dr. Lynn Margolies
Does a family guilt-tripper have an emotional hold over you? Here's what makes them tick and why you feel you are being controlled.
Psychology Today [View Article]
A woman sits with crossed arms while a couple argues in the background. A flower vase is on the table.
Dr. Lynn Margolies

by Dr. Lynn Margolies

Dr. Lynn Margolies is a Ph.D. licensed experienced psychologist. She was trained at McLean Hospital, a Harvard teaching hospital, and was a Harvard Medical School Instructor and Fellow. Read Bio

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