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This One Thing Can Make or Break Your Therapy

Dr. Lynn Margolies
Why don’t some people make progress in therapy? Find out the most common reasons why.
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A male therapist listens as a teenage boy sits with his head in his hands, expressing distress in a cozy room.
Dr. Lynn Margolies

by Dr. Lynn Margolies

Dr. Lynn Margolies is a Ph.D. licensed experienced psychologist. She was trained at McLean Hospital, a Harvard teaching hospital, and was a Harvard Medical School Instructor and Fellow. Read Bio

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